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Dear Subscriber, Welcome to Talkeeze, the Talking for Peace Newsletter specifically designed to encourage conflict resolution and bring harmony into your communications.
At the end of January we completed the second of our Destiny Map Days – which again were ‘sold out’. And we have both created our own Destiny Map for 2009. However creating the map is only the first step in getting what you want. Without clearly defined goals the map remains simply a dream. This month’s feature article is about how to stay on track particularly in the turbulent times where we are constantly hearing about the doom and gloom of the present and also the future.
Wishing you peace and harmony in all your relationships
Ellie and Jadzia |
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Taster Session 'Words That Change Actions'Tuesday 24th March at 20.30 (UK time) This is a f*ree Taster of our 'Words That Change Actions' Foundation course. Discover how with our simple 4-step model you can transform your relationships and become a powerful change agent in all your relationships. Find out more and Register for the call here |
 No Cost 'Conversations with Ellie and Jadzia' TeleclassMonday 23 March at 20.30 (UK time) 'Conversations with Ellie and Jadzia' is a live 45-minute content rich conversation addressing the challenges of using the Talking for Peace model of communication in both our work and home lives. Register for the call here |
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That Change Actions Foundation ProgrammeTeleclass Series starting Thursday 2nd April 2009 Another opportunity to participate in our foundation programme. Move away from the same old knee jerk reactions and differentiate between what’s actually been said and what you think you hear and how you react to it. Click here for more details |
 'Talk So Kids Will Listen' Series of 3 Teleclasses - Monday 20 April 2009 at 20.30 Are you ready to end the daily battles and bring back fun and joy into your parenting experience? If so, join us and explore how to be firm and gentle and get the results you want. We will be looking at Parenting traps and techniques to avoid them. Click here for more details |
Get The Life You Want
Many people feel as if they are living a life scripted or prescribed by others. They live according to blueprints created by their parents, partners, friends or society. Their lives are designed around meeting the needs and expectations of others rather than their own.
One of the key steps of Words That Change Actions is to address our Needs and then to take steps to get them met. However, before you can do that you have to clarify what unmet needs you have.
Five Steps to Get The Life YOU Want – YOU are the force for change in your life
1. Vision It
All achievers vision their desires. All change starts with different mental pictures So set some time aside without any distractions. Go to the park and sit on your favourite bench; put on some soft music and light a candle and go inside yourself. Allow yourself to dream of what you would like in your life, how you would like it to look, what would you like to be doing and with whom, what sort of conversations would you be having. Imagine you are an artist painting a 3-d picture of YOUR desired Life.
2. Record It
Create a Vision Board (Destiny Map). Collect pictures of the home, the holiday, the job you want. Collect your favourite inspirational quotes. Place all these on flip chart sheet and display in a place where you can see it every day. As you look at your Vision Board you will be strengthening your desire for your dreams
3. Believe It
The size of your success is determined by the size of your belief and Belief is nothing more than what we accept as true or real. Each morning and evening affirm your desires by imagining yourself already in possession of your desires. Let go of your limiting beliefs (see Action Tips) around your goals.
4. Plan It
Decide what it is you have to do between where you are now and where you want to be. Set the Goals and write them down with clear deadlines, clear Action Steps and clear Outcomes.
5. Act On It
Take one of your major goals and decide to take one action in the next 24 hours that will bring you closer to your goal. Do this every day. This will inspire you and motivate you to take more action. Make Strategic Action a habit and as Aristotle said we are nothing more than a collection of our habits
AND ENJOY IT
Our Spring programme Words That Change Actions addresses all aspects of our needs. Why not enrol and discover how to get your needs met!
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e.g.
- I don't have enough time.
- I can't afford it.
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They will never agree to it
Now
- Write down 5 - 10 of YOUR limiting beleifs.
Then take each belief and find evidence that it
is not true.
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